Wondering how to do Kegels for men? It’s really simple, especially as you get into the habit of practicing them regularly
1. Strengthen
Clench and hold your pelvic floor muscles for at least 1-2 seconds. Relax for 10 seconds and repeat. Do this ten times or ten repetitions. Do not tighten your thighs, buttocks or stomach while doing Kegels.
2. Persevere
Use the same principle from above, but this time repeat each clench for up to 5-10 seconds, slowly building up to 10 repetitions for each set. Relax your pelvic floor muscles for 20 seconds between repetitions.
3. Resist
Want to make Kegels more challenging? Add a little bit of abdominal resistance while you focus on the strength and persevere phase. We initially recommended against adding abdominal tension but that was only because we need to find the target muscles first before adding any kind of additional tension!
4. Contract hard
If you’ve mastered all the three stages above, try hard and fast contractions where you execute each repetition with as much force and power as you can, and then relax the muscles immediately instead of counting slowly to 10, for example. Repeat this up to ten times.
5. Control bladder
A great way to further improve the pelvic floor muscles is by scheduling your bathroom visits at the same time every day and tracking how much water/fluids you drink each day. For instance, if you’re drinking up to 1.5-2 litres a day, it’s perfectly normal to make ‘pitstops’ at the bathroom 8 times a day. But if you’re urinating more frequently, do Kegels to have better control of your bladder.
Many people just starting out with Kegel exercises find it easier to do them while lying down, as your muscles won’t be fighting gravity. Also, you may want to initially contract and release your muscles for two to three seconds, just to get a feel for it. If you find that too easy or not challenging enough, then start with a five-second count instead.
However, after a few weeks, you should start challenging yourself more, and that means contracting your muscles for a slow count of up to five to ten seconds. To make it more challenging, carry out your exercises while standing up, as this puts more weight on the target muscles, or, in other words, they’ll be fighting gravity, hence improving bladder control even more over time.